No bones broken
By MP on Friday 15 September 2006, 19:33 - Journal - Permalink
So it turns out that dad's pelvis is still in one piece and, despite my misgivings, he was actually able to walk between the house and car, the car and radiology surgery, and so on.
Greg picked dad up at about 9 am, giving mum time to rouse herself, so that she didn't have to wake to an empty house - a situation likely to induce immediately panic in the belief that she had been deserted. Later Greg dropped dad off at the house at about 11 am, by which time I'd already done a satisfying amount of work, and was feeling like I was getting somewhere. Of course, as soon as dad got home he started phoning me about this and that.One of his calls was to ask how much money I thought he ought to have in his wallet. Another was to tell me, regardless of the facts, that he and mum had no food in the fridge. A third was to ask if I was going over later today, as he hadn't seen Greg or I for some days.
'No,' I said, 'I was there last night, and Greg was there this morning.'
'Was he?'
'Yes, he took you to the doctor, and the x-ray place.'
'Yes, that's right!' he said. 'How did you know that?'
I laughed. Better this than losing four hours looking after his appointments this morning, I thought.
When I got to the office I read the recent comments on this weblog and laughed again. It is, without a doubt, a tonic to see that someone else appreciates just what you have been through. So, with the sun shining outside and no bones broken it seems, if only temporarily, that all is well in my tiny world.

Comments
Mike, I'm glad your Dad hasn't broken any bones, and that all this hasn't broken your funny bone. I've enjoyed some of your recent posts - even though the topic was serious, they were somehow entertaining.
Interesting that your mom, on the one hand, wants your dad to leave and, on the other, would panic if he was gone. Perhaps, no matter how demented we become, we need our demons to keep us feeling safe.
Gail Rae
Yes, this is mum's personal conundrum. Unfortunately she no longer has the rational capacity to resolve this herself - it's just problems either way!
Oh, also, wanted to mention, I'm glad you were able to accomplish a satisfying amount of work. It's funny, but, I often wonder, now that I'm doing this full time, what I will think of traditional work after my mother dies and I find I'm back at someone else's drawing board. The possibility doesn't scare me, but I wonder if I will ever again find traditional work satisfying.