Here's a transcript from my MessageBank:
'[cough] Mike? Mike? It's, uh, dad here. Oh, he's not there. I was just trying to tell your mum...I've just been trying to explain...I'm talking to Mike, Irene, just a minute. Uh, Mike? Your mum's saying this is her house, and it's not. It's ours. It gets me in a real...Are you there, Mike? [long pause] Mike? Are you there? I don't...Here's your mum. [long clattering interval] Hello? [mum's voice, followed by another long pause] Hello? It's umm...[clattering again]. Mike, it's your dad, dad, here. Are you coming over? What? Just a minute...yes, can you come over here and explain please to your mum that...she's, she's...I'm going in a minute. [yet more clattering, which seems to go on forever, and finally ends with the phone being hung up.]'Five minutes later another message was left:
'It's dad. There's a big envelope here for you...addressed to y- [he literally cuts himself off in mid-word by hanging up]'
Twenty minutes after that:
'It's dad.'
I get this sort of message nearly every day. Dad often calls me very early - he gets up at about 5:30 am (and I often don't go to bed until 2 am). I have recently taken to switching my phone off before I retire. Even though I don't answer the early morning calls, their ringing has the effect of dragging me out of deep sleep and leaving me feeling unrested for the rest of the day. I hope that I never have to face the guilt of having missed a true emergency call one day.
I fantasise about installing a systems that answers as follows:
'Please listen carefully, as we have recently changed the options in this system. Press:
- to complain about having no money
- to ask if I'm coming over
- to tell me there is a letter for me
- to say that mum denies she is married to you
- to state that there is no food in the house
- to speak to one of our operatives
- to hear these options again
'You're getting them too, are you?'
'You know what it's like.'


